There are certain challenges in every relationship. But these challenges are meant to be conquered and triumphed over. They shouldn't be treated as dead ends. Wooing back your ex after a painful breakup can be quite challenging and difficult. But trying to do just that doesn't do any harm. And if you do it with the utmost caution, sincerity and pure intention, the task is half done.
So can you win your ex back? How can you make your partner realize the importance of your relationship and having each other through thick and thin? Here are some helpful tips and guidelines on how to get your ex-boyfriend back:
Save the love
This may sound kind of cheesy, but basically that's one of the reasons why you were in a relationship and why you want to have him back. So hold on to it for as long as you possibly can. And don't forget the magical words, "Love triumphs against all odds."
Yes, you read it right. He did a mistake and so did you. Both of you are somehow guilty of the failure of your relationship. But regardless of who did what, apologize. It is very important, so do it with utter sincerity and honesty.
You may have done your part to make a reconnection with him. Regardless, don't ever try to expect that he would come running to you, although that's what you really want him do. Instead, give him enough space and time to ponder over the matter. Both of you are hurting and need time to heal. So sleep on it and wait for his anger and frustrations to subside considerably.
Give out signals
Instead of pestering him with your incessant phone calls and text messages, why don't you throw at him hints and signals? Give as many I-want-you-back signals as you can. However, be also wary of irritating him.
You must avoid aggravating his ire to the point he wouldn't want to see even your shadow. Just give him enough hints to realize that you are not cowering. Make sure that these signals convey your intention - you still love him like the first time.
If love sounds cheesy, seducing your ex-boyfriend is downright cheap. But what can you do? You're desperate and still hopelessly in love with him. This is your last ace, and you want to play it all for the sake of saving your relationship.
Fact is you know him better than anyone else. So you know exactly how to build that up. It may look like you're cheating him back to you, but then everything is fair in love and war. So go get him back!