Once you change these things, it is possible to Get Your Ex Back. However, telling them about changes in progress will only make you appear desperate and needy. If you want to attract someone into your life, you need to avoid looking like you need to have him or her there. Complete all of the changes on the list and then work on building a new connection with your ex. Space is very important, always give him or her plenty of space and time to do anything they like. Once you are free of the prior problems, you want to arrange a casual date and have fun. Suggest something that will take no more than an hour and keep the conversation light. Put your best face forward when you see your ex and this will attract him or her back into your life.